Sunday, February 13, 2011

Not to regulations, can not be a good habit of surrounding the composition

 Han Bao was 4 months old, and her years in this effort, whether from the idea that behavior, have had a change of renewal. As to make some change is expected as adults, and some changes in the natural that has the really do being. Sometimes I think that doubt, sometimes, will think this is some really heavy conflict. Perhaps this is every parents will experience the things right. there friend advised me to teach the course informative Bao Han register flexible in order to borrow, through appropriate, I feel that a write, the mood of the good friend to everyone on my teaching methods and discuss the same time.
did not regulations, not a man to abide by the law around the
------- < br> can not create a square and round items, later extended to a yardstick and provisions of the move action. phrase Yin paper aims to teach people to be law-abiding life. So, this set of use in these small, little fart Diaohua children who apply are not practical in the end? The answer is certain.
there is an old saying that is a general, whether infants, children, adolescents or young date, the internal law of each stage and progress will have the characteristics of life based on the progress to take a closer look at the progress of each stage, 0-3-year-old is a human life of the lay date and also the progress of gold life date. In this golden age of teaching is the key date of child care support. From the perspective of children pondering brain physiology, 0-3-year-old children to teach, physiological and psychological progress of the progress to be held simultaneously, in particular, mindful of creating non-intellectual factors, which include, temperament, personality, ability, need, emotion, emotions, attitudes, etc., contented child's physiological and psychological need for necessary, to produce something, to join the emotions. from the perspective of children's mental balance parents love, is the length of time their parents as the criterion, in the eyes of children, love is equal to something. psychologists thought that, in children 0-3 years old can not handle the problem, the child will always burst release to the age of 13, to deal with too late. effective results! Of course, this premise is much the family must be unity of action that people can not show, I practice, the appearance of your mischief! this rule to the basic needs of large and small changes to the concept of thin areas, should be integrated . The same also do not complain, as my child, can not teach that sort of language.
reasonable deployment schedules
----- child on the livelihood of some children sleep
not playing every day middle of the night refused to go to bed, even if willing to sleep and had to escort (milk to accompany sleep to accompany, to accompany the story), really is a headache. my Han Bao occasionally have this problem, but usually the situation will persist so in her cell at night not to play will show below, through the general, I find that no matter how long her nap time, anything after dinner with 1 - 1.5 hours of work in the district play, will have her sleep at night is major sponsor, time-tested. and later in the bath (before 22:30), one can immediately touched the pillow into the sleeping situation. complete necessary escort.
but the holidays will nap time or retention problems in the morning 8 o'clock get up, except for lunch time, the light playing on her upcoming two-thirds of total effort, will fall asleep until 3 pm, the bed to sleep at 17:30. before I always want to improve, not only occupy Prostitutes and also else is even trying to use the next 狠招, the target even want her to at least 1 point at midday before the full submission. but were not seen onset, made two very crazy. after I simply care about nothing until she was tired , and it took her shower and then go to bed yourself.
As for getting up the problem, we will discuss first before going to bed good way to get up the next day, perhaps the alarm wake up, wake my mother perhaps, when Han Bao middle of a later decision, the next morning, they will follow the pre-negotiated, the alarm and immediately got up, and sometimes even her grandmother can not help but observe the credibility of thumbs keeps complimenting her.
own Summary: that In this issue of sleep, not hard, the whole spread the use of escort for children in the future is also very large, not only create self-respect can not leave the shadow of conflict will make the child emotionally. less than proper deployment of a number of recreational sports for children I enjoy the play, but also stability and hearts sleep well.
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on meals at school, my mother has always had a lot to me complain about how their children how picky eaters at home, refused to eat this refused to eat that, usually, I only returned one: I personally always thought it was the child's deficiencies, the old in the br> After the recipes I adopted is to replace the way to the premise of new dishes to ensure victory in the visual area in one fell swoop. even adults, too, if all three meals a day so hastily sent to the target will be to fill his stomach may be, that life will be a lot less interest. When you present a table showing the color, smell and taste of food, your appetite will surely, therefore, the style of food is very focused. Second, no matter adults and children, eating meals, there must be rules, and no one any reason to dispute occurred on the same table eating. In order to protect the normal Tea Food, request children not to eat within one hour before meals, snacks, held immediately after a meal not to intense activity. oblique accusations in the meal can not be accused of even more children, do not talk about happy things and so after dinner, to save deep spread meal appetite. especially for my Han Bao eating less of these girls, so the request is particularly severe primary, firm can not allow she was eating while playing, eat a meal up to 1 hour or more down the bad habits.
children will not hear case of restless, then only a very solemnly said to him, or continue to eat, or continuous play, But if selected to play, then I'm sorry, you no eat this meal, and drained! attitude must be determined at the moment, and his family also hold the same attitude, do not fear the child a choice not to eat, even if a meal is not eat, will not starve. However, what standard assumption is not strong, everything comes to an end. of course, also did not next time, remember!!!
own Summary: The first meal will certainly keep up the overall skill content of up, and secondly, the family has not given lightly damaged regulations, guidelines must be firmly stick to the issue. There is a saying work and family there to eat, when the big people are not eating and eating and the children really sit still, when fed to migrate to another location. but the same old still have to sit and eat in truth, may not show the cocking feeding the deep representation. this must be to eradicate.
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on learning about the 3 year old child, I thought of the day for the children to learn to deploy a reasonable time, its After the composition is very good study habits beneficial. In the course of study sponsored by the child to work thinking, to develop a punctual, orderly and good proclivity increased efficiency, real-time find and correct the child learning procrastination, daydreaming, effect and other bad habits particularly major. In fact, the contents of this study do not necessarily have to be more stable, rigid categories of teaching things, and that is the whole story, or pick some brain training methods to lure kids in love with this short but certain process. As the arrangement of work effort can be a stable choice, let the children every day to this time can be conditioned to automatically make adaptive learning.
time we normally would be deployed in the afternoon after school she later (17:30-18: 00), this time I was able to put cooked rice into the rice cooker and put the food can be steamed together, that can well use this time and Han Bao while learning, and can generally good food, can be described as double-edged sword. Do not underestimate this short span of 30 minutes because the 30 minutes, we not only learn at the same time, while playing better color mud sing or dance at the same time, the treasures, it belongs to her 30 minutes are complete and the mother parent-child work.
own Summary: Mr. Chen Heqin our renowned teaching family said: , and a good living habits is enough to maintain the capacity to develop through the year, and in this process, parents also want their children to adapt well to cultivate a good life and the necessity of a major. which is more necessary parents patience and careful to observe the child, the child immediately to capture the emotion, so that children can find a sense of interest applicable to mergers way, the replacement of different models, the survival of sponsoring children develop good habits. Thus, it is a child that audit, more testing parents course!
----- Han Bao on the livelihood of themselves has always been the same age
boast the self-reliance of the children, I think it should be with the attitude of parents is very involved, from childhood, I always asked her things to do whatever, and in a timely manner to convey my appreciation to her meaning. At present, she has been able to bathe yourself, brush your teeth, wash their own clothes (on her own while taking a bath before the end of the two), each finish off toys in real time to collate appropriateness, but also to help his mother Zecai, sweeping and so on. Perhaps in these course, she can not completely done well, but even doing a very poor also must not attack her, let her go to what should be let go do to learn the habits of such a composition, but on the meaning of her own very own. Of course one may be the beginning of what your children are reluctant to do that, then you can words and deeds, all your keeping.
own Summary: In the cultivate good living habits of children of this focus, we can not ignore the role of the family to teach. the future or the effect that the child is careful, methodical work, or hodgepodge, like reading or hate learning whether the good will to survive by adapting the spread. Thus, In this date, their parents were the first to teach the concept of Chou Cheng-chih; in time of peace in creating livelihoods minor children living proclivity excellent, focusing on the role of parents exemplary words and deeds, as the practice of manipulating the supply timing of the child; leadership and sponsorship of a child all the year round good action, so develop the habit of truth.
final
I am actually a very very unstable emotional mother, often angry, Han Bao denied the slightest, I would not have become a little patience, often make a direct throw dirt bucket toy and so on. I acknowledge at this point I am very radical, but for those who do not listen to repeated education should be very popular with children. In the request for children to go out to buy some useless things, will certainly want to maintain their own standards, their own even if a hundred, I will not easily compromise. She wanted to cry let her cry, cry and no big deal, assuming you are crying because of her by her, along her So in the future, there must be more things you something to be waiting for you.
reason not to speak of fear and the children, especially when she does not directly point out her mistakes, even if she always cry, do not ignore, attitudes must be firm. perhaps another matter migration mindful of her power, such as Seoul and then held her emotionally secure second instruction. such a case, I usually will choose her bedtime to gently, The tone can be discussions with her there to discuss matters arising, brand children's clothing:
want to teach the boy, then please learn how to be a qualified bar ..
charge the parents.
Fucai, write in 2010.10.3

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